(32:4) Ya'ahqov sends messengers before-him, to Eysav his-brother, towards the land of Sey'ihr, the field of Edom.
We find out that Ya'ahqov has a need to make amends with his brother. But he also knows he's taking a big risk. How can he be sure Eysav doesn't still want to kill him? But then Ya'ahqov took a big risk listening to his mother to deceive his brother and father, and fleeing from his father-in-law Lavan, who we heard had the barbaric right to harm him and claim all that was his.
(32:5-8) Ya'ahqov commands them to convey, 'Thus will-you-convey to my-lord, to-Eyhsav: "Thus conveyed your-servant Ya'ahqov: I sojourned with Lavan, and after, up-to-now. And I acquired cattle and donkey, flock and man-servant and slave-woman. And I send to tell to my lord, to find grace in your eyes."'
And the messengers return to him, to Ya'ahqov to convey, 'We came to your brother, to Eyhsav, and (he) also goes to meet you, and four hundred men with him.'
And Ya'ahqov feared very much, and shrank to himself.
By this time Ya'ahqov knows the heart of the human: it's a mixed bag of bad and good, power-gaining and power-losing, malevolence and benevolence. He rightfully fears that Eyhsav will approach him in hatred. So he gets to work, once again: he divides all he has into two camps:
(32:9) Conveying, 'if Eyhsav will come to the one camp and cuts it down, there will be the remaining camp to escape to.'
In his time of need, Ya'ahqov turns to his God, YHVH:
(32:10-13) Ya'ahqov conveys, 'God of my father Avraham, and God of my father Yitzchaq, YHVH, the One Who conveys to me, "Return to your land, and to your birthplace, and-I-will-do-good with-you," I am (so) small for all the loving-kindnesses, and for all the truth which You did for Your servant, for with my stick I crossed over this Jordan, and now I have become two camps. Deliver me from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Eyhsav. For I fear him, lest he will come and cut me down, mother upon children. And You, You conveyed, "Good, I will do good with you, and I will place your seed as the sand of the sea, which cannot be counted for abundance."'
Ya'ahqov then collects a gift for Eyhsav, of herds, flocks, camels and donkeys (but no humans), in order to see if Eyhsav will accept him. Once he sends this gift with his servants to Eysav, he takes his two wives, two slave-women, and his children and all that is his and crosses over the river with them.
Only now is Ya'ahqov comfortable being alone, by himself.
YHVH listens to Ya'ahqov, and hears him.
The very next verses show Ya'ahqov visited by a mysterious אִישׁ, iysh, or man.
Here is the (almost) literal translation of these verses:
(32:25) And Ya'ahqov was left to-himself; a man wrestles with him, up to the lifting-up (of) the-darkness (sunrise).
(32:26) (he) sees, that he will not be-allowed to-him, touches in (the) palm (of) his haunch, dents (the) palm of Ya'ahqov's haunch, in-his-wrestiling with-him.
(32:27) Conveys, 'Send-me-away, for lifting-up (of) the-darkness.' Conveys, 'I-will-not-send-you-away, for if you-bless-me.'
(32:28) Conveys to-him, 'What is your-name?' Conveys, 'Ya'ahqov.'
(32:29) Conveys, 'Your name Ya'ahqov will no longer be conveyed, for with Yisra'eyl. For you struggled with gods and-with people, and-it-will-be-allowed.'
(32:30) Ya'ahqov asks, conveys, 'Tell now your-name.' Conveys, 'Why this will-ask to--my-name?' Blesses him there.
(32:31) Ya'ahqov calls name (of) the-place פְּנִיאֵל
'Presence-(of)-God,' for I-saw God face to face, utilize(-ing) my-soul.'
(32:32) Glows to-him the-sun, as-which crossed-over (the) Presence-(of)-God; and he limped upon his-haunch.
(32:33) Therefore the children of Israel will not consume (the)attachment (of) the-ligament which(is) upon (the)-palm (of) the-haunch, up-to this day; for Ya'aqov (was) wounded in-palm (of) haunch, in-attachment (of) the-ligament.
Chapter 33
Ya'ahqov is now at the moment of reckoning: after twenty years of building up his life away from home, he's facing his brother who swore to kill him once their father died. Yitz'chaq, though, is still alive.
He lifts his eyes and sees Eyhsav approaching with 400 men. Ya'ahqov is terrified. He prepares for the worst: he sends his two 'slave-women' and their children in front, then Leah and her children, and last Racheyl and Yoseyf.
Surprisingly, Eyhsav 'runs to meet him, embraces him, falls on his neck and kisses him'. They weep.
Eyhsav lifts his eyes and sees the women and children. He wants to know who they are, and Ya'ahqov, humbling himself to his older brother, says 'the children whom God has graciously given your servant'.
Each group of wives and children comes near and bows down.
Eyhsav then wants to know what all the 'camp' is about that met him: the flocks and herds, the camels and donkeys.
Ya'ahqov conveys, 'To find favor in the eyes of my lord'.
Eyhsav tries to reassure his brother that he has enough, but Ya'ahqov has a score to even. Just as his grandfather Avraham purchased the Cave of Machpelah as a burial site for the full price from Effron the Hittite, Ya'ahqov now pays as best he can for the birthright and blessing he got from Eyhsav.
But Ya'ahqov remains fully in control of the interaction. Eyhsav does not want to take the animals, so Ya'ahqov has to insist. Eyhsav wants to travel alongside Ya'ahqov, but Ya'ahqov demurs with much fawning, insisting the children are tender and the suckling animals would die if they were driven too hard. Eyhsav wants to leave some of his men with Ya'ahqov, but Ya'ahqov dismisses that too with his real mission: to find favor in Eyhsav's eyes.
FInally, Eyhsav moves on and returns back to Sey'ihr (in southern Jordan).
Ya'ahqov then journeys north to Succoth (in northern Jordan), named for the succoth or pens he built for his animals. He also builds a house.
Next he travels east about 100 miles to the city of Shechem, in peace, in the land of Canaan (near Nablus in northern West Bank).
He purchases a portion of a field for 100 qesiytah, the local currency, from the hand of the sons of Chamor, the father of Shechem. There Ya'ahqov sets up an altar and calls it 'God, God of Israel'.
Chapter 34
This chapter is all about Dinah, Leah's and Ya'ahqov's only daughter. Leah named her דִינָה, 'judge,' just like her brother, Dan. She was just a child, but she had the confidence and curiosity to explore her new surroundings by herself. Unfortunately, the neighborhood was rough, and not safe for a girl exploring alone.
(34:1) Dinah goes forth to see the daughters of the land.
(2) Shechem, son of Chamor the Hivvite, the prince of the land, sees her, takes her, lays with her and oppresses her.
(3) His soul clings to Dinah, daughter of Ya'ahqov; (he) loves the girl, speaking upon the heart of the girl.
(4) Shechem conveys to Chamor his father, 'Take to me this child for a wife'.
Impulsive sexual behavior goes back a long way. But the people of the land know this is not right. So do Ya'ahqov and his sons. Both Chamor and Shechem try to smooth things over. But in this instruction manual, the Torah, no bad deed goes unpunished, even if done impulsively. Dinah trusted people she knew not; her family ignored her explorations; the Shechemites are stuck with their spoiled prince; Shechem's father is weak and indulgent; Dinah's brothers know they are powerless to get their sister back without deception; the Shechemites do what the spoiled prince tells them; Ya'ahqov's hothead sons take vigilante justice, as there is no other justice; and Ya'ahqov whines that now he looks bad in the eyes of the Canaanites.
(5) And Ya'ahqov heard, that his daughter Dinah was defiled, and his sons were in the field (with) the livestock; and Ya'aqov was silent until they came.
(6) Chamor, the father of Shechem, went forth to Ya'ahqov to speak with him.
(7) And (the) sons of Ya'ahqov came from the field when they heard, and the men were shocked, and were very enraged, because a very bad thing was done in Israel, to lie with the daugher of Ya'ahqov, and this is not done.
(8) Chamor speaks with them to convey, 'Shechem my son, his soul thirsts for your daughter. Give her now to him, for a wife;
(9) 'and make marriages with us: give your daughters to us, and take our daughters to you';
(10) 'and you will dwell with us, and the land will be before you: dwell and trade in it, and get possessions in it'.
(11) Shechem conveys to her father and to her brothers, 'Let me find favor in your eyes, and that which you say to me I will give'.
(12) 'Increase greatly upon me, dowry and gift, and I will give that which you will convey to me, and give to me the girl for a wife'.
(13) The sons of Ya'ahqov answered and spoke to Shechem and Chamor his father in deception, because he defiled Dinah their sister.
(14) And they conveyed to them, 'We are not able to do this thing, to give our sister to a man that is foreskinned, for he is humiliating to us.
(15) 'But on this condition will we agree to you: if you will be like us, to have every male circumcised;
(16) 'and we will give our daughters to you, and your daughters will be taken to us; and we will dwell with you and we will be as one people.
(17) 'and if you will not listen to us, to circumcise, we will take our daughter and we will go'.
(18) And these words were good in the eyes of Chamor, and in the eyes of Shechem, son of Chamor.
(19) And the boy did not delay to do the thing, for he longed for the daughter of Ya'ahqov; and he was the most honored of the house of his father.
(20) Chamor and Shechem his son came to the gate of their city and they spoke to the men of their city to convey,
(21) 'These men are peaceable with us, they will dwell in the land and trade therein; and here, the land is broad enough for them; let us take their daughters to us for wives, and let us give our daughters to them;
(22) 'but on this condition will the men consent to dwell will us, to be as one people: in circumcising to us every male, as they are circumcised.
(23) 'Won't their livestock and their belongings and all their animals be ours? Let us consent to them, and they will dwell with us'.
(24) They listened to Chamor and to Shechem his son, all who went forth out of the gate of his city; all males that went forth from the gate of his city were circumcised.
(25) And it was in the third day when they were in pain, two sons of Ya'ahqov, Shim'ohn and Leyvi, brothers of Dinah, each man took his sword, came upon the city with confidence, they killed all male(s).
(26) And Chamor and Shechem his son they killed facing the sword; they took Dinah from the house of Shechem; they went forth.
(27) The sons of Ya'ahqov came upon the slain and looted the city, because they defiled their sister.
(28) They took their flocks and their herds, and their donkeys, and that which is in the city, and that which is in the field;
(29) and all their worth and all their little ones and all their women they returned with and looted; and all which was in the house.
(30) Ya'ahqov conveyed to Shim'ohn and to Leyvi, 'You are distressing to me, to make me disgusting to the dwellers of the land, in the Canaanites and in the Perizites, and I, few in number, they will gather upon me and cut me and smite me, I and my house.
(31) They conveyed, 'Will they treat our sister like a prostitute?'
Chapter 35
God now needs to pull things together to make the best of a bad situation.
(35:1) God conveys to Ya'ahqov, 'Get up, ascend (to) Beyth-Eyl (House of God), and return there; and make there an altar, to the God Who appeared to you, in your escape from (the) presence of Eyhsav your brother'.
(2) Ya'ahqov conveyed this to his household and to all that was with him: 'Remove the foreign gods that are with you; and purify yourselves; and change out your clothing;
(3) 'and let us get up and ascend (to) Beyth-Eyl; and I will make there an altar to-God (Who) answered me in the day of my distress, and stood with me in the direction which I went'.
They gave to Ya'ahqov all their foreign gods and their earrings. Ya'ahqov concealed them under the terebinth tree in Shechem. They set out, and the terror of God was upon the cities that were around them, and they did not chase after the sons of Ya'ahqov. Ya'ahqov came to Luz in the land of Canaan, it is Beyth-Eyl, he and all the people with him; (he) builds there an altar and calls the place 'God (of) Beyth-Eyl', for there it was unveiled to him when he escaped from the face of his brother; and Devorah, Rivqah's nurse died, buried below Beyth-Eyl, under the oak; calls its name 'Crying Oak'.
(9) God appears to Ya'ahqov again, in his coming from Padan-Aram (the field of Aram), blesses him;
(10) God conveys to him, 'Your name is Ya'ahqov; no more will your name be called Ya'ahqov, for with Yisra'eyl will be your name'. Calls his name Yisra'eyl.
(11) God conveys to him, 'I am Eyl Shaday (God of Plenty), be fruitful and multiply, nation and assembly of nations will be from you; and kings will come forth from your vigor;
(12) 'and the land which I gave to Avraham and to Yitzchaq, to you I will give it, and to your seed after you, I will give the land'.
(13) God went up from above him, in the place which He spoke with him.
Ya'ahqov set up a stone pillar in the place where He spoke with him, and poured a libation of oil upon it. Ya'ahqov calls the name of the place where God spoke with him Beyth-Eyl.
After they set out from Beyth-Eyl, on the way to Ephrath ('ashes-of'), Racheyl had hard labor and gave birth to a son. And her soul was going forth, for she died, she called his name 'son-of-my-sorrow', and his father called to him 'son-(of)-right'. Racheyl was buried in Ephrath (Bethlehem), and Ya'ahqov set up a pillar upon her grave.
Yisra'eyl sets out, pitched his tent, onwards to 'Tower (of the) Drove'. While in that land, R'uveyn went and layed with Bilhah, concubine of his father; Yisra'eyl hears.
Ya'ahqov's sons are twelve, born to him in Paddan-Aram, the field of Aram.
Ya'ahqov came to his father Yitzchaq in Hebron, where Yitzchaq expired and died at 180 years of age, and was gathered to his people, old and satisfied of days. And Eyhsav and Ya'ahqov his sons bury him.
Chapter 36
This chapter is devoted to Eyhsav and his progeny, and their אַלּוּפֵי
alufey, chiefs. He is also known as Edom, 'red' or 'rust-colored'.
Eyhsav took his wives from the daughters of Canaan: Ahdah the daughter of Eylon the Hittite, and Ohalivamah daughter of Ahnah, daughter of Tziv'ohn the Hivvite. And Bas'math daughter of Yishma'eyhl, daughter of N'vaoth.
After his brother Ya'ahqov returned from Paddan Aram, Eyhsav moved away with his entire family and all he had, because their possessions were too great for the two of them to live together. He dwelt in the mountain land of Sey'ihr (near Petra in Jordan), where the Horites dwelled.
Of note is Eyhsav's son Elifaz, son of Ahdah daughter of Eylon the Hittite: Elifaz's concubine was Timna, who bore him Amaleq, whose name means 'lick peoples'. He was the bitterest enemy of the Israelites.
A succession of kings is listed from the Horites, the original inhabitants of the land, 'who reigned in the land of Edom, before there reigned any king over the children of Israel'.
In verse 40 both Timna and Ohalivamah are named as chiefs. Apparently women in this culture had much power, and not necessarily for the good: power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.